One morning, I decided to take a meal to one of our homeless friends. While looking for our friend Andrés, I met Chris* at the day center for people at risk of social exclusion. He greeted me, and I asked, “How are you, Chris?” 

He looked sad and quickly replied, “Today is my birthday.”

I asked, “How are you celebrating?” 

Chris answered, “I have no one to celebrate with.” 

Many homeless individuals and families feel isolated, lonely, and invisible. They have few people to talk to and even fewer who truly listen. Our outreach focuses on listening, showing care, and offering hospitality. This has helped us build strong connections with them. 

I said, “Let’s go celebrate your birthday.” So we went to a nearby café. Since Chris had surgery for throat cancer, he needed soft food. He wanted to eat a Spanish potato omelet (tortilla de patatas). Two other friends joined us. While we waited for our food, I asked Chris what he was grateful for. 

He smiled and said, “I have one more day to live, and I’m thankful for friends like you.” 

The others shared their thoughts, and I read Psalm 91, sharing some reflections. Chris’s expression changed—he looked happy. 

Our friend Andrés said, “Chris, you should come to church.” 

Chris replied, “I’m a Roman Catholic Christian, and I won’t change that.” 

In Spain, many people believe that being born in Spain automatically makes them Roman Catholic. Chris had never shown interest in church or God before. But then, he looked at me and said, “I don’t mind going to your church.” 

Since then, we’ve built a stronger connection. During our weekly outreach to the homeless, Chris is always waiting for us and enjoys spending time together. 

Later, Andrés invited Chris to the Alpha course we run for families and individuals at risk of social exclusion.  Chris is active participants of our Alpha course.